The Most Loving Place in Town
Have
you read the Book “The Most Loving Place in Town”? It’s a modern day
parable for the church. One day Pastor Tim received an anonymous letter saying,
I’m writing to bring something important to
your attention. You have lost your first love. You and your church have drifted
away from the love of God and one another as your first priority and into a
pattern of success-driven busyness… (kindle location 173 of 1967)
Tim was shocked because he believed
that the church was doing quite well. Something was going on almost every
night. Bible studies, support groups, commission meetings, and so on. As Tim
was pondering over the matter, the phone rang. It was Dani Wilson, one of the
church members. She called to let the pastor know that she had decided to look
for another church. At the end of the conversation Dani said, “I guess the
bottom line is that this church isn’t exactly the most loving place in town.” It
was an inconvenient truth. Tim began a search. He visited his mentor, close
friends, and trusted church members. He found how far he and his church had
drifted away from their number one priority: loving God and each other. At the
end of the story Pastor Tim and the church were able to recapture their lost
love and become a beacon of love in their community – the most loving place in
town.
The Church of Ephesus
This story reminds us of the story
of the Ephesian church. Jesus, the chief Pastor of the Church, evaluates the spiritual
health of his church. Basically, what Christ thinks of the Ephesian church is
this:
I have watched your hard work in guiding the
church out of a period of turmoil and challenge. You have endured a great deal
and persevered with energy in creating a level of excitement and activity
within the church. For all this I commend you. However, you have lost your
first love. You have drifted away from the love of God and one another as your
first priority. If this serious situation is not turned around, it will destroy
the church’s credibility. But fear not! If you humbly accept the challenge to
restore love into the life of the church again, your church can be the most
loving place in Ephesus under the guidance of the Holy Spirit!
At that time the false apostles,
called the Nicolaitans (6), sneaked in the church and led people astray from
God’s truth. They supported the popular cultural values of sexual and religious
compromise. They taught that Christians could participate in the cult of
Ephesian idols heavily involved in sexual immorality and the eating of food
offered to idols.[1]
Thankfully, the Ephesian church rightly discerned truth from false teaching and
kept its doctrinal purity. Its members didn’t listen to anyone if they spoke of
anything except concerning Jesus Christ in truth. What a wonderful church the
Ephesian Christian community was! Jesus commended them in this way: “But you
have this in your favor: You hate the practices of the Nicolaitans, which I also
hate” (6). But the problem is, in this process somehow they have lost their
first love. They were busy in their service, patient in their sufferings, and
orthodox in their belief. But they lost their first love for Christ and for
others. They became like Pharisees, who kept all God’s laws without love. As we
know, without love we are nothing. Without love we are not a living church at
all.
The Enemy’s Strategy
It’s the enemy’s strategy. We may
win the outward battle. But in the heat of the battle the enemy attacks our
hearts and our minds. He tries to make our hearts hardened, cold, dry,
apathetic, and even hostile toward other people. Probably many of you have seen
the film “Ben-Hur.” Judah Ben-Hur and Messala were good old friends. But
Messala was ambitious and believed in the glory of Rome. Later he returned as
the new commander of the Roman garrison. Messala demanded that Judah would
deliver potential rebels to the Roman authorities. But of course, Judah refused.
And because of that, his mother and sister were put into prison, and later they
became lepers. Judah himself became a galley slave for three years. He swore to
take revenge on Messala. And finally, he did win the chariot race and take his
revenge. But in the meantime Judah’s heart grew hardened and cold. Esther,
Judah’s beloved, said to him, “Where is my Judah Ben-Hur? You have become like Messala. I have lost Judah Ben-Hur, whom I loved.”
The Ephesian Christians were so
passionate for doctrinal purity. But as they battled, their hearts became
hardened just like their enemies’. Their love for Christ grew cold. And they lost
their passion for the message of the gospel. They just kept focused on maintaining
the inward purity of the church. They became an inwardly focused church. They have
all forgotten their primary calling – to be a light of witness to the outside
world. In the Middle Ages Archbishop Trench wrote about the Ephesian church in
this way: “A traveler visiting the village found only three Christians there
and these sunken in such ignorance and apathy as scarcely to have heard the
names of St Paul or St John.”[2]
We Love Because …
It’s a solemn warning for all of
us. In verse 7 Jesus says, “He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit
says to the churches.” Today the
Spirit says not just to the Ephesian church, but also to the entire church in
every age, including our church. Then,
how can we restore and rekindle our first love for Christ? There is no hint
given in today’s passage, but John tells the way in his first letter. He
writes, “We love, because he first loved
us” (1 John 4:19). This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down
his life for us (3:16a). When we come to the cross, the flame of our love is
kindled.
Earlier I shared the story of Judah
Ben-Hur. At the end Judah didn’t mean it, but he attended the trial of Jesus. Judah
witnessed how Jesus was being marched through the streets, how he was mocked, how
he suffered, how he was crucified. Then, something happened to Judah. After
coming back home, Judah said to Esther, “Today I witnessed the crucifixion of
Jesus. Almost at the moment he died, I heard him say, ‘Father, forgive them,
for they know not what they do.’ And I felt
his voice take the sword out of my hand.” This is the power of the cross. Christ’s
love does melt down our hardened hearts and kindle our love for him and his
people. Fanny J. Crosby powerfully proclaims this wonderful truth in this way:
I am thine, O Lord, I have heard thy
voice,
and it told thy love to me;
but I long to rise in the arms of faith
and be closer drawn to thee.
and it told thy love to me;
but I long to rise in the arms of faith
and be closer drawn to thee.
Draw me nearer, nearer, blessed Lord,
to the cross where thou hast died.
Draw me nearer, nearer, nearer, blessed Lord,
to thy precious, bleeding side.
to the cross where thou hast died.
Draw me nearer, nearer, nearer, blessed Lord,
to thy precious, bleeding side.
Like the church of Ephesus, we as a
church have a work to be done, a fight to be fought, and a doctrine to be kept.[3]
But above all things we are called to love Christ and love one another. So let
us come to the cross. Let us come daily to the foot of the cross – the source of love. Then, the flame of our
love for Christ and those around us will be kindled. And we will become a beacon
of love in our community – the most loving place in town! Amen.
[1] Craig
Keener, The NIV Application Commentary: Revelation
(Zondervan, 2000), 111.
[2] John
Stott, What Christ Thinks of the Church
(Three’s Company, 1990), 27.
[3] Ibid.,
27.