Sunday, December 17, 2023

“Christian Joy” (John 3:22-30)

Two Stories

In his sermon, “Don’t Waste Your Life,” Pastor John Piper shares two different stories with us.[1] The first story goes like this. In his church two of the faithful church members, Ruby Eliason and Laura Edwards, who went to Cameroon as missionaries, had both been killed because of a car accident. Ruby was over eighty. Single all her life, she poured it out for one great thing: to make Jesus Christ known among the unreached, the poor, and the sick. Laura was a widow, a medical doctor, pushing eighty years old, and serving at Ruby’s side in Cameroon. As people read this story in the paper, they said, “What a tragedy!” But no, that is not a tragedy. That is a glory. Then, Pastor John tells us the second story, what a tragedy is. He reads to us from the Reader’s Digest: “Bob and Penny… took early retirement from their jobs in the Northeast five years ago when he was 59 and she was 51. Now they live in Punta Gorda, Florida, where they cruise on their thirty-foot trawler, playing softball and collecting shells.” Yes, there’s a time for relaxing and taking a vacation. But if the purpose of our life is the American Dream: a nice house, a nice car, a nice job, a nice family, a nice retirement, collecting shells, that’s a tragedy. If Bob and Penny’s life describes the last chapter of our life, what a tragic way to finish the last mile before entering the presence of Jesus who finished his last mile so differently. 

 

Two Joys

As we celebrate Jesus as our joy this morning, I want us to ask ourselves this question: “What is at the bottom of my joy?” “What is the feeder of my happiness?” All of our joys have a foundation. What does it mean by that? Let me give you an example. Once my daughter Grace said to me, “Dad, when I grow up, I want to be either pastor or teacher.” I said, “Great. But why do you want to be a pastor or teacher?” She said, “Because you teach and talk in front of many people, and they listen to you.” So I asked, “Why does that make you happy?” She replied, “Because you can tell them what to do and boss them around.” If we continue this “why – because” conversation, we get to the bottom of what makes us happy. At the bottom there are only two possibilities of our joy: making much of me, or making much of God. Self or God.

The default mode of human heart is self-centered, self-exalting, making much of self (cf. Jer 17:9). That’s why being “born again” is necessary. The new birth changes the default mode of our fallen heart. It changes the bottom of what makes us happy. It changes the foundation of our life.

 

Nicodemus

In John 3 we see a contrast between a person who has self at the bottom and a person who has God at the bottom – a contrast between Nicodemus and John the Baptist. But both of them have something in common: Their worlds are falling apart. They are going through a major crisis in their lives.

First, we meet Nicodemus. The Bible introduces Nicodemus as a man of the Pharisees, a ruler of the Jews (v. 1), the teacher of Israel (v. 9). In other words, he was serious about God. He was a good man, moral man. He was knowledgeable, experienced, respected, full of credentials. Seen from outside, he was a perfect example of how to live as God’s people. But in reality, Nicodemus’ inner world was falling apart. He felt miserable. He felt thirsty. He felt something was missing. Why? Because there was self at the bottom. Because self at the bottom could never satisfy his heart made for God. Blaise Pascal rightly said, “There is a God-shaped hole in the heart of every person which cannot be satisfied by any created thing but only by God the Creator, made known through Jesus Christ.”

So Nicodemus came to Jesus at night. And Jesus said to him, “You must be born again.” Here Jesus was saying, “Nicodemus, you need something new at the bottom. Now God is not at the bottom. You are at the bottom. You must exchange yourself at the bottom with God.” So, to be born again is to experience this exchange at the bottom – an exchanged life! It is no longer I at the bottom, but Christ is at the bottom.

 

John the Baptist

The second person we meet in John 3 is John the Baptist – the one who has God at the bottom of his joy. How do we know what’s at the bottom? Oftentimes, storms in life reveal what’s in there at the bottom. Right now John is going through a major crisis in his career. He was a rising star. Everyone in Israel was talking about him, and many of them came out to be baptized by him. But then, all of sudden a storm came. He saw his ministry begin to fade away as Jesus began his ministry. His disciples said, “Rabbi, your star is sinking. Your ministry is diminishing. All are going to Jesus, the one whom you testified. What are we going to do?” They were upset, anxious, jealous. But, John said to them, “I am not the Messiah. I am not the Bridegroom. I am the friend of the bridegroom, his ‘best man,’ who stands beside him and hears him, rejoicing greatly at the bridegroom’s voice. That joy is mine, and it is now complete. He must increase, but I must decrease” (John 3:29-30). So what’s at the bottom of his joy? Making much of Christ!

William Barclay tells us about the role of the bridegroom’s friend in Jesus’ time as follows[2]:

The “friend of the bridegroom” had a unique place at a Jewish wedding. He acted as the liaison between the bride and the bridegroom… And he had one special duty. It was his duty to guard the bridal chamber and to let no false lover in. He would only open the door when in the dark he heard the bridegroom’s voice and recognized it. When he heard the bridegroom’s voice he was glad and he let him in, and he went away rejoicing, for his task was completed.

The joy of the best man! The joy of making much of Christ, the Bridegroom! This is the new birth, new heart, new creation, new exchange! John the Baptist is new you, new me. When we are born again, myself being made much of ceases to be the bottom, and God becomes the bottom for the first time. God becomes the source of all our joys. Then, so naturally, we treasure him, savor him, enjoy making much of him!

 

Look to Jesus

Our Christian journey is a journey from making much of self to making much of God, a journey from a life of Nicodemus to a life of John the Baptist. It takes a miracle to change. We need the new birth. “How can this be?” “How can I be born again, born from above?” Nicodemus asked. And we ask today. Jesus answers, “Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the desert, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life” (vv. 14-15). It is not enough to be educated. It is not enough to grow up in the church. It is not enough to do religious activity. We must look to Jesus, who gives a new foundation of joy.

Elizabeth Prentiss was a native of Maine. She was a pastor’s wife, and was very good at writing prose and poetry from a young age. But sadly, for much of her life she lived the life of a near invalid, she always suffered from chronic pain. To make things worse, she lost a child and shortly thereafter a second. In her diary Prentiss wrote, “Empty hands, a worn-out, exhausted body, and unutterable longings to flee from a world that has so many sharp experiences.” But it was then that she looked up to Jesus, and she was able to refocus her understanding of her own value and worth from doing to being – being with Christ, being in Christ. In the midst of grief and suffering, she found peace, rest, and joy[3]. That night she wrote the four stanzas of her hymn, and the second verse goes like this:

Once earthly joy I craved, sought peace and rest;

Now Thee alone I seek, give what is best;

This all my prayer shall be:

More love, O Christ to Thee,

More love to Thee! More love to Thee!

 

John the Baptist became less and less. He was slipping off to the sidelines. Perhaps he struggled with self worth and purpose in life and questioned himself whether he was on the right track. Then he looked to Jesus. He saw Jesus exalted. And he was filled with joy and said to the whole world, “Look, look to Jesus, the Lamb of God! Look to Jesus, and you will live! Look to Jesus, and you will be filled with joy!”

In the same way, there are times when we wonder whether we are on the right track – especially when our health is failing, when our life is falling apart. But if Christ is exalted and glorified in and through our lives, we are on the right track. By this, we can rejoice. Yesterday I visited one of the church members who was going through the final hours. I was sitting at her bedside. All I could do was to help her to keep her eyes on Jesus. I visited another church member who recently lost his spouse, confused and overwhelmed with sorrow. I held his hand and prayed with him, encouraging him to look to Jesus, our exceeding joy (cf. Psalm 43:4).  

Looking to Jesus is not just the ABC of the Christian life but the A to Z of the Christian life. Everyone who looked to the snake on the pole lived. Everyone who looks up to Jesus on the cross lives. Nicodemus looked to Jesus and lived. John the Baptist looked to Jesus and lived. Let us look to Jesus – not just once, or twice. Let us keep our eyes on Jesus even when our world is falling apart. Then, Christ will become the bottom of our joy, and we will be filled with joy – joy of making much of Christ, saying, “More love, O Christ to Thee, More love to Thee!”



[1] John Piper, “Don’t Waste Your Life,” https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/boasting-only-in-the-cross/excerpts/don-t-waste-your-life

[2] Kent Hughes, John: That You May Believe (Crossway, 1990), 93.

[3] History of Hymns: More Love to Thee, O Christ,” https://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-of-hymns-more-love-to-thee-o-christ

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